YAGT: What does she expect ?

[Minkee]

Originally posted by: pillage2001

Originally posted by: guapo337

Originally posted by: ROTC1983

Originally posted by: hdeck
listen to the hopper. the man knows what he's talking about.

this, my friends, is true. i never thought i'd say this. hopper actually has it RIGHT for once.

He's wrong. I had a few girl friend's that slept over my place and it was mainly just to past the night. WITHOUT any intimate contact.

No, I'm not gay.

No offense.. but every one of my female friends that slept over with me.. was like PRESSED against me. No intimate contact.. really.. if you have no interest in that.. you must be as gay as a lark.

As for this king of the fairies, if you don't want to hit it, don't go. Tell her your penis was broken as a child and it stings when its touched. K Thx, bye

 

[DDCSpeed]

word up. Bring a condom just for the rainy days

 

[FrustratedUser]

Originally posted by: Dead Parrot Sketch
She may just want to spend an evening with a cunning linguist.

If you don't hit it you are a master debater.

 

[LH]

He's wrong. I had a few girl friend's that slept over my place and it was mainly just to past the night. WITHOUT any intimate contact.

See when a girl sleeps over at your place you may or may not have sex.

When she asks you to sleep over at her place, bring a condom or two, they will be used.

 

[Koing]

Originally posted by: LH

He's wrong. I had a few girl friend's that slept over my place and it was mainly just to past the night. WITHOUT any intimate contact.

See when a girl sleeps over at your place you may or may not have sex.

When she asks you to sleep over at her place, bring a condom or two, they will be used.

Ditto man.

Tell her your busy if you don't want to go, just don't regret it later on.

 

[MercenaryForHire]

To paraphrase MichaelD-

"Go hit it with the Mark McGuire Big Stick of OOOMPH."

- M4H

 

[polm]

Originally posted by: Koing

Originally posted by: LH

He's wrong. I had a few girl friend's that slept over my place and it was mainly just to past the night. WITHOUT any intimate contact.

See when a girl sleeps over at your place you may or may not have sex.

When she asks you to sleep over at her place, bring a condom or two, they will be used.

Ditto man.

Tell her your busy if you don't want to go, just don't regret it later on.

I am still not sure what I am going to do. You see...I am not extremely physically attracted to her. But I do find her very fun and easy to talk to. But if I dont end up getting physical, I am afraid of battling the occasional "uncomforable silences" that will certainly crop up on an ALL nighter with no breaks for long physical contact.

 

[Grasshopper27]

Originally posted by: polm
I am still not sure what I am going to do. You see...I am not extremely physically attracted to her.

You will be when she takes her clothes off, trust me...

You're young, she obviously wants to play, go enjoy yourself. Just remember to make her happy too.

But I do find her very fun and easy to talk to.

Good, that will make the sex even better. Unless she tells you to just shut up and fvck her (women do that sometimes), communicate with her, ask her what she likes, tell her what you want, etc.

Sex the first time with someone new is always a bit weird, just have fun with it. You've got all night...

But if I dont end up getting physical, I am afraid of battling the occasional "uncomforable silences" that will certainly crop up on an ALL nighter with no breaks for long physical contact.

If you go over there and don't sleep with her, you might piss her off. She will expect it if you go. It is a darn near given, and she'll be hurt/confused if you don't come prepared.

Bring a half dozen condoms, just in case one or two break. You'll probably need at least two or three anyway.

: ) Hopper

 

[Grasshopper27]

I wonder though....what do you think she expects from me ? I am trying to avoid casual sex all together, these days. It has been a cause for many failed realtionships, and I am trying to save that step for more serious realtionships.

BTW, just in case you're confused here...

You two don't HAVE a relationship, so you don't have anything to destroy by having casual sex. She might not be the least bit interested in any kind of relationship with you.

She might just want someone to play with, and if you want a night of some fun without attachments, go enjoy yourself. Nothing wrong with that, so long as both people know what to expect.

: ) Hopper

 

[Grasshopper27]

Originally posted by: Dead Parrot Sketch
She may just want to spend an evening with a cunning linguist.

Naa, if he is 23 then she is probably at least 19-20 years old. She is past the "lets make out" stage where you just kiss a lot and rub your hands all over each other.

At that age, if you bother going that far, you're going to have sex. That's just how it is.

: ) Hopper

 

[zCypher]

Do it! Do it now!

 

[Pastore]

Originally posted by: Minkee

Originally posted by: pillage2001

Originally posted by: guapo337

Originally posted by: ROTC1983

Originally posted by: hdeck
listen to the hopper. the man knows what he's talking about.

this, my friends, is true. i never thought i'd say this. hopper actually has it RIGHT for once.

He's wrong. I had a few girl friend's that slept over my place and it was mainly just to past the night. WITHOUT any intimate contact.

No, I'm not gay.

No offense.. but every one of my female friends that slept over with me.. was like PRESSED against me. No intimate contact.. really.. if you have no interest in that.. you must be as gay as a lark.

As for this king of the fairies, if you don't want to hit it, don't go. Tell her your penis was broken as a child and it stings when its touched. K Thx, bye

Good call, cuddling kicks ass.

 

[hdeck]

hopper is on a roll...i need a chick like this...hmm...

 

[Grasshopper27]

Originally posted by: hdeck
hopper is on a roll...i need a chick like this...hmm...

LOL!

Hey, not bad for a lowly Grasshopper, huh?

I was bound to get one right after 5,391 posts!!!

: ) Hopper

 

[EvilYoda]

Originally posted by: Grasshopper27

Originally posted by: hdeck
hopper is on a roll...i need a chick like this...hmm...

LOL!

Hey, not bad for a lowly Grasshopper, huh?

I was bound to get one right after 5,391 posts!!!

: ) Hopper

Yeah, you certainly tried enough times in this one thread alone...at one point I was wondering if anybody else was going to reply again.

hehe, jp....but polm, I really wouldn't worry about it that much, just pick one thing and go with it. You don't have a huge friendship, you're not attracted to her. If you sleep with her and things turn out well, and you change your mind, great, if not, you had sex. If you don't go over at all, she might be okay, she might be hurt, but it's not a huge loss. If you enjoy talking to her so much, she probably feels the same way, so might not mind the lack of sex and be okay with a purely platonic relationship. Only other option is to go over for a sleepover and not do it...which is weird, unless others will be over, or you just end up cuddling. Even if you're not physically attracted to her, just suck it up (proverbially...) and keep your eyes closed. Not that I could do that, but maybe you could.

Best of luck. At least you're getting offers. I've been single for...5 months now, and not one. Granted I haven't tried, but still, props to you, you stud-muffin.

 

[Grasshopper27]

Originally posted by: EvilYoda
Yeah, you certainly tried enough times in this one thread alone...at one point I was wondering if anybody else was going to reply again.

Are you trying to imply that I'm a nef???

hehe, jp....but polm, I really wouldn't worry about it that much, just pick one thing and go with it. You don't have a huge friendship, you're not attracted to her. If you sleep with her and things turn out well, and you change your mind, great, if not, you had sex. If you don't go over at all, she might be okay, she might be hurt, but it's not a huge loss. If you enjoy talking to her so much, she probably feels the same way, so might not mind the lack of sex and be okay with a purely platonic relationship. Only other option is to go over for a sleepover and not do it...which is weird, unless others will be over, or you just end up cuddling.

Cuddling is a lot of fun with someone you're in a relationship with, but that isn't what she wants.

I'll bet 50 Grasshopper Points that she invited you over for the express purpose of sex.

Even if you're not physically attracted to her, just suck it up (proverbially...) and keep your eyes closed. Not that I could do that, but maybe you could.

I made the mistake of passing up two such offers when I was younger, I thought I was being all mature. Boy was I stupid. Thankfully since then I haven't been nearly so dumb.

: ) Hopper

 

[Alphazero]

kol habanot zonot

Genuine Israeli advice

 

[bolomite]

what that mean?

 

[CraigRT]

GO TO HER HOUSE.

thankyouforyourtime.

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: Alphazero
kol habanot zonot

Genuine Israeli advice

Someone get out Babelfish and translate "I'd hit it" into every spoken language of the world.

Hey, you gotta be able to communicate worldwide, right?

- M4H

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: Grasshopper27
Are you trying to imply that I'm a nef???

Does it even need to be implied?

I'll bet 50 Grasshopper Points that she invited you over for the express purpose of sex.

Heh. While you're at it, throw in whatever I've got on my Hopper Account on that bet. That's a safe wager if I ever saw one.

I made the mistake of passing up two such offers when I was younger, I thought I was being all mature. Boy was I stupid. Thankfully since then I haven't been nearly so dumb.

You passed up free sex! /points and laughs
(Unless you had a reason, like being in a relationship.)

- M4H

 

[StormRider]

I think she expects you to have a really big one. Don't disappoint her.

 

[dxkj]

guy asks girl over, he wants sex, but probably won't get it


girl asks guy over, she wants sex, and most straight guys will hit it


so in other words


SHE WANTS SEX

and the best thing for you to do is avoid it

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: dxkj
guy asks girl over, he wants sex, but probably won't get it


girl asks guy over, she wants sex, and most straight guys will hit it


so in other words


SHE WANTS SEX

and the best thing for you to do is avoid it

Umm ...

I'll be over to see her in an hour. I'll tell her you said "Hi".

- M4H

 

[Grasshopper27]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: Grasshopper27
Are you trying to imply that I'm a nef???

Does it even need to be implied?

You big meanie!!!

I made the mistake of passing up two such offers when I was younger, I thought I was being all mature. Boy was I stupid. Thankfully since then I haven't been nearly so dumb.

You passed up free sex! /points and laughs
(Unless you had a reason, like being in a relationship.)

- M4H

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It gets WORSE!!!

One of them was the best friend of a girl I had just broken up with. The day before I broke up with her best friend, and she was over at my house "picking up a few CDs", and she asked for a soda. I got it for her and one for me too, and she sat down on the couch. So I joined her and we started talking. Next thing I know, she leans over and kisses me and puts her hand on my leg.

I'm allo freaked at this point, but because she is totally hot, the little soldier is now at attention (which she notices). I foolishly start making out with her (we're both 16 at the time) and I get her shirt off, she gets mine off... She starts to undo the buttons on her jeans, and I WAS STUPID ENOUGH TO STOP HER! Grr...

I said, "no, I just broke up with your friend, that wouldn't be right..." She said, "it's ok, I've wanted to do this for awhile now". And I STILL SAID NO!

Yes, you have my permission to point and laugh all you want...

Damm I was stupid... She was do damm hot too, even better looking than her best friend I had just broken up with. I thought I was being all mature and grown up!

I'm still a bit miffed over that to this day.

: ( Hopper