YAGT:

[lavagirl669]

Best to just flat out ask her without being too suspicious or
implying anything.

You will get a good feeling if she's lying or not this way.

 

[Aimster]

She has lied before. More than once.
I already know what she got me for v-day. She got it today, lingerie from Victoria Secret.

I'll find out in two hours. Probably more.. she has to think of a good excuse.
I already had a feeling this was going on. Always "busy" on Friday/Saturday. Not much action going on in the bedroom latley. She blames it on stress.

 

[Red Dawn]

Originally posted by: Aimster
She has lied before. More than once.
I already know what she got me for v-day. She got it today, lingerie from Victoria Secret.

I'll find out in two hours. Probably more.. she has to think of a good excuse.
I already had a feeling this was going on. Always "busy" on Friday/Saturday. Not much action going on in the bedroom latley. She blames it on stress.

You sound like a control freak. You must be if she has to lie to you just so she can go out shopping. Why else would she lie about something as mundane as shopping or going to the mall?

 

[WyteWatt]

I am so thankful I will never be in any kind of relationship. Not because I can't but because I don't want to.

 

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: imtim83
I am so thankful I will never be in any kind of relationship. Not because I can't but because I don't want to.

never say never.

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: Aimster
No not the first time.

She told me she was going to school on Saturday and then stopped by Fair Oaks Mall to buy an outfit. I was thinking OK no big deal, right?
Well she came over and showed me the outfit and the receipt popped out of her bag and it said she bought it from Tysons Mall. I found this out now because I was cleaning my room and I found the receipt on the floor.

I knew her ass wasn't studying on a Saturday.

You're freaking out because she went to a different mall than the one she'd originally planned on ? :Q

 

[essasin]

Originally posted by: Aimster

Originally posted by: CheapArse

Originally posted by: Aimster
I'll ask her today when she wakes up. It's 4:28 A.M here.

ya...I didn't mean ask her right now anyways. How far away is the Tyson mall?

10-20 minutes depending on traffic. If she went to Tysons Mall it means she didn't go to the library to study.

Her entire reason for going to Fair Oaks was to get a job application and after she did that she told me she quickly picked out an outfit. When she called me she was supposedly in her car at the "Fair Oaks" parking garage coming to meet me.

Girls do not just quickly pick out an outfit. Not her at least.

My Theory:
She knew I was at home waiting for her to come. She called me on the way here and asked if she could study first and she'd call me when she was done. She said it wouldn't take long. It took 3-4 hours total for a Chemistry lab report. Making me wait for her call would guarantee I wouldn't go far away from my home. Therefore she would feel secure with whoever else she was with knowing I wouldn't be at the malls.

Of course I'm tired and I couldn't be totally wrong.

Sorry to tell you this but it sounds like your a little insecure about your relationship. I've been in this position and I broke it off with her and it was the one of the best things, but one if the hardest things, I ever did for myself. If you have to put yourself though this now and you can not trust her now, it'll be a really rough road ahead of you.

 

[woowoo]

Kick it to the curb
A relationship must be built on trust
Do you still TRUST her?
(No)

 

[vood0g]

i'd wait until at least valentines day and see what's up. give her the benefit of a doubt.

 

[gigapet]

she actually bought that outfit weeks ago and used it as a cover.

She was banging someone else.

 

[rh71]

Geez it's not like she told you she went to Fair Oaks AFTER she came back... she said it before she went anywhere. She could've easily changed her mind. No need getting suspicious before actually asking her.

And what other situations has she lied about ?

 

[Goosemaster]

Originally posted by: Aimster

Originally posted by: Orsorum
God, I miss VA.

The traffic here sucks. Be happy you don't live here.

I live "here."

 

[WyteWatt]

Originally posted by: Hyperblaze

Originally posted by: imtim83
I am so thankful I will never be in any kind of relationship. Not because I can't but because I don't want to.

never say never.

Why not? I already know I would hate being in a relationship and I hate sex. I know 100% for sure. Doesn't mean you have to try something to know.

 

[Red Dawn]

Originally posted by: imtim83
I hate sex.

How do you know if you've never tried it?

 

[DougK62]

Obviously she is cheating on you. Probably being tag-teamed.

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: Aimster

Originally posted by: CheapArse

Originally posted by: Aimster
I'll ask her today when she wakes up. It's 4:28 A.M here.

ya...I didn't mean ask her right now anyways. How far away is the Tyson mall?

10-20 minutes depending on traffic. If she went to Tysons Mall it means she didn't go to the library to study.

Her entire reason for going to Fair Oaks was to get a job application and after she did that she told me she quickly picked out an outfit. When she called me she was supposedly in her car at the "Fair Oaks" parking garage coming to meet me.

Girls do not just quickly pick out an outfit. Not her at least.

My Theory:
She knew I was at home waiting for her to come. She called me on the way here and asked if she could study first and she'd call me when she was done. She said it wouldn't take long. It took 3-4 hours total for a Chemistry lab report. Making me wait for her call would guarantee I wouldn't go far away from my home. Therefore she would feel secure with whoever else she was with knowing I wouldn't be at the malls.

Of course I'm tired and I couldn't be totally wrong.

lol,you'd freak if you were with me, I've been known to leave for work at 6:30am and not return till midnight. You are scary dude.

 

[sixone]

Originally posted by: Aimster
She has lied before. More than once.
I already know what she got me for v-day. She got it today, lingerie from Victoria Secret.

I'll find out in two hours. Probably more.. she has to think of a good excuse.
I already had a feeling this was going on. Always "busy" on Friday/Saturday. Not much action going on in the bedroom latley. She blames it on stress.

Question is: are you willing to let things continue this way indefinitely, or is this the hill you wanna die on, so to speak?

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: sixone

Originally posted by: Aimster
She has lied before. More than once.
I already know what she got me for v-day. She got it today, lingerie from Victoria Secret.

I'll find out in two hours. Probably more.. she has to think of a good excuse.
I already had a feeling this was going on. Always "busy" on Friday/Saturday. Not much action going on in the bedroom latley. She blames it on stress.

Question is: are you willing to let things continue this way indefinitely, or is this the hill you wanna die on, so to speak?

lol,you people can't be serious, Maybe she was out getting him something to treat his anxiety disorder ?

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: Aimster
About where she was

What would you do?

once a liar
always a liar

dump her

 

[Red Dawn]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: Aimster
About where she was

What would you do?

once a liar
always a liar

dump her

Yeah it sounds like he would be doing her a favor.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: Aimster
About where she was

What would you do?

once a liar
always a liar

dump her

Yeah it sounds like he would be doing her a favor.

psssst - yeh, i was kinda rooting for the girl with my response

 

[WyteWatt]

Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Originally posted by: imtim83
I hate sex.

How do you know if you've never tried it?

I don't have to try something to know I hate it. I hate sex and thats final.

 

[Stumps]

Originally posted by: DougK62
Obviously she is cheating on you. Probably being tag-teamed.

BAW HAHAHAHA ....stumps falls off chair and chokes on food he is eating

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: imtim83

Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Originally posted by: imtim83
I hate sex.

How do you know if you've never tried it?

I don't have to try something to know I hate it. I hate sex and thats final.

It's a relief to know you won't be skinny dipping in the gene pool

 

[WyteWatt]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: imtim83

Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Originally posted by: imtim83
I hate sex.

How do you know if you've never tried it?

I don't have to try something to know I hate it. I hate sex and thats final.

It's a relief to know you won't be skinny dipping in the gene pool

Yes but I have the biggest advantage. No kids, no STDS.