Is this what this forum is like now, just joining the hate train without any meaningful replies
It's always like this, we alternate between the few bits of information we get from external sources, the little we can investigate ourselves, and then give the company the proper treatment. It's the same way with AMD and Nvidia, nobody gets a free lunch. The more they delay and obfuscate, the more people jump on the train.
Also, you need to understand this issue is the result of something we saw coming ever since Coffee Lake Refresh. That's almost five years since they started messing with the stock settings. I remember arguing on the forums that pushing power limits beyond spec is unhealthy, and for all intents it should be considered overclocking. At the time I did not find many sympathetic ears because our collective definition of overclocking was rooted into the idea that OC meant operating beyond stock turbo clocks. Maybe now, after folks see how power limits affect voltage and stability in the upper frequency region, opinions will change.
Also, look at the difference in behavior towards Intel with respect to this issue and with respect to their GPUs and driver features/stability.
It's the same forum, the same people, the same company, very different outcome in behavior. We are actually cheering for Intel and patiently waiting to get their act together. Intel is also behaving differently, they are actively communicating through a competent employee and correcting issues. Compare their GPU PR efforts with the awkward silence on this CPU stability topic. They are investigating for over 2 months now, and will issue a public statement in May. Meanwhile mobo makers release underbaked firmware fixes that are supposed to fix something they're not willing to tell us about.