I have thought about things. First, let me clarify my position. I advertized what I felt (based on what I have seen on ebay for ES CPUs) was an accurate description. When the return reasons were 2fold, first that it was not as described, which I thought was wrong, and that it would not loaded drivers, which I knew was totally wrong, I felt the user was trying to scam me, so I fought this return. Its also my first return from a user in 22.5 years on ebay. I thought I was doing the right thing, and could not believe ebay would take his side on what I felt was a ridiculous claim. In my first 2 phone calls with ebay, they made me feel that I was understood, and that I was right in fighting the return. Obviously I was wrong. So when my second claim was refused I tried to print a return label, and the system was not helping me, and ebay was no help, as I did what they said, and it did not work. After 2 days of trying, I did the "back-door" label after I found his address. Then I waited a few days, and it had not shipped. So I called ebay again. THIS is when they told me that I was 2 days late in making the label, and this the user did not have to return the product, which is insane IMO.
OK< so based on the fact that I had one user from AT that was being a jerk, and not being understanding at all, but the rest of the team should not suffer, I restored my team affiliations, but will not contribute to anything directly related to that member, and will not join his discord ever again. I am still at a minimum contribution level, until my finances can recover. So this threads remains essentially intact.